Today Miss P and I met Andy for lunch (mmm Chinese Buffet!!) and then I needed to go to the post office to mail out a package and some letters. We are still using the travel system so A) I can work on my guns and B) it is just so much more convenient to haul her around in the seat instead of carrying her in and out for a quick trip.
So I decide that I would get her out of the seat
and show her off to let her stretch. Bad move mommy. I had a bag of gifts I was mailing to my Elfster for an exchange and needed to shove them all in a box while holding her. She sat on the bench/railing while leaning into me and clutching my shirt for deal life. I was trying to shove 7 items into a too small of a box, but I was determined to only pay $10 as opposed to $15 for the larger (I know it's only 5 dollars, but being a stay at home mom has me doing what I can!) A lady in front of me could see the struggle and offered to hold Peighton for a moment while I got my box ready. I sized her up. Literally looking her from head to toe and completely judging her. She has a wedding ring on...nice outfit...
cute purse. She then told me that she has 2 little boys and her mom was home with them so she could have a few hours alone to run errands. I know anyone can say that, but I have to admit, she looked the part. I eyed the door, eyed the security cameras and handed Peighton over. In my mind I am thinking how I will destroy this lady with a punch and a few kicks (soccer player, I know) and I know I can run faster then her. She held her for maybe a minute and then went on her way. Whew.
With all the crazies out there, I never would think of giving her to a stranger and even though it was just for a minute, I was still so nervous. Have you been offered assistance with your children like this? Or maybe you, like this lady, have offered to help another? And please don't stone me. I
will kick your ass promise I am a good momma :)
A lady helped Reagan off the train at the zoo when I had my hands full with Olivia and our stuff. But after her fit about the train, I would've been ok with her taking off with her. ;) (JUST KIDDING)
ReplyDeleteYou're not a bad mommy. It sucks the world has come to this, though. Damn crazies.
ReplyDeleteI used to be worried about offering to help but oddly enough no one seemed to mind me offering when I was pregnant. Now I still offer, and try my damnedest to not be hurt if someone says no. (I know I don't often look the almost-40, lawyer with a baby of my own type)
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